If you think about it, Valentine’s Day is a nuisance for the environment. Most of the traditions of Valentine’s Day like the billion cards people send each other are not really a friend to the environment. The cards are just one aspect, several billion dollars are spent every year on gifts that are just thrown away like teddy bears, balloons, and decorations.

Preparing for Valentine’s Day this year means knowing what to do and what not to do so that the day or night goes off without a hitch. Whether you’re single, in a new relationship or have been together for years, February 14th can be a special day to celebrate. Here’s how to make sure you do it right: