From style to stone: How to select the perfect engagement ring

Engagements today are less about following rules and are more about making it more personal experience for your partner by finding the perfect ring that can match their style and your story together.

Chunky, contemporary designs allow you to express yourself in a number of dazzling ways. And in 2025, getting engaged is less about surprise and more about shared joy – with more than half of UK couples shopping for rings together. To help you select the perfect ring for your partner, here is a guide to help you find your perfect match that truly reflects your love story.

Personality-focused rings and ‘quiet’ proposals

The most beautiful rings are those that feel authentic to the wearer. By paying attention to the jewellery that your partner wears everyday it can help with the decision making. Do they happen to gravitate towards clean, modern pieces? Or do they have a minimalistic style? If they love vintage heirlooms, they may prefer a ring that is an Art Deco-inspired design. And when it comes to the proposal itself, consider the recent trend of ‘quiet proposing’ (just the two of you without an audience) – which could ultimately extend to choosing the ring together to ensure it fits both of your taste.

Beauty meets wearability: Consider ring shape and practicality

Finding your partner’s ring size can be part of the discreet fun, if you’re planning a surprise. 
You can always ask a trusted friend for help and don’t panic if it’s not the correct size – a jeweller can always resize it.

Practicality matters when thinking of ring designs. Pear-shaped diamonds are delicate at the point but benefit from protective settings. Vintage-inspired cuts, like the old-mine (which has surged in popularity thanks to the recent Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce engagement). It adds character if you want a blend of romance and history.

4Cs and white gold: The right diamond, the right metals

The 4Cs (cut, colour, clarity, and carat) remain the framework for evaluating a diamond’s look, quality and value. You might also want to follow many couples in exploring lab-grown diamonds, which offer excellent value and ethical benefits. 

Consider both style and lifestyle when thinking of metals. Yellow-gold gives a more traditional look, whereas platinum is hypoallergenic and hard-wearing. White gold is an affordable option if you’re looking for contemporary brightness at a lower cost.

From solitaires to halos: How settings shape ring design

Settings can truly transform a diamond by adding layers of meaning to the design. A solitaire ring can draw focus to the central stone. Whereas a halo setting adds more sparkle and drama to a ring. There are countless styles of engagement rings that you can explore, ensuring you’ll find one that reflects both your love story and your style.

An engagement ring that captures your shared story

Selecting the perfect engagement ring is about more than diamonds or carats. Whether you decide to shop together or leave it as an element of surprise by focusing on personal details such as style and practicality, you can be sure to make an unforgettable choice for your partner and one that they will cherish for the rest of their lives.